In some countries, they have family traditions that are very cultural and different than people comprehend. I was reading about how India has arranged marriages as their family tradition and I know that from my sister in law, who is Portugal, have the first born son have the same name as the father.
I believe that the family perpetuates the culture because of the rituals you teach and exercise in your home is what your children take from it and make part of their culture because that is what they know and are comfortable with since they grew up in that environment.
Two aspects of my own culture I would like to perpetuate would that I see in my family would be honesty and compassion. My family is very honest and part of that reason is because my mom knew when something was up or if we were hiding something so we always told the truth when we broke something. I also want to be compassionate and loving to my husband and children. I would like to keep that culture tradition going in my family. Two things I want to improve on in my own culture is communication and spending more quality time with family. I believe it is important in a relationship and as a family to have open communication with each other. I think it is ideal in a family where the husband and wife have are very open with each other and the parents and children have a slight boundary, but still are able to communicate well. Ii also think it is important to spend time with each other. My mom was a single parent and growing up she worked a lot and I didn't spend as much quality time with her as I would have liked. I think bonding with each other as a family is important to me and something I would like to have in my future family. I think we develop these cultural forms in how we live now. If we start making a habit of these traits we can make them part of our life and teach what we live in our home. My husband and I are going to perpetuate these traits in our culture and make them part of our family life.
This is a picture of me and my husband.
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